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I asked the same question myself a while ago Liza. The next question would be what have you been writing in a pm that you don't want them to see? But I wouldn't dream of asking you that question 'cos you are beyond reproach. Usually!
I think there is quite a bit of reassuring going on behind the scenes - I know I have been reassured many times by other grapes! Nice to know there is another lovely grape who I can call on Liza!
Just reassuring a newbie that they shouldn't take any notice of a jealous grape doubting them and wanting proof by pictures, I don't mind sharing we are all friends aren't we ?
What's that got to do with us reading PMs?
We had one Grape a while back that was PMing people telling them that I [personnally] could read them, was reading them and was telling other people what they said.....which did kind of get my back up as I can't, I wouldn't and if I could and had - surely the people in question would know if their private stuff got out???
Anyhow - I just thought they might have been up to their old tricks.
The only time we have been able to read PMs was the night when we were all logged in as Olivier; not just the mods - everyone that night was logged in as him. And we could ALL see his PMs. So we [well, Sarz] deleted them as soon as we realised as we didn't want everyone to be able to read private stuff.
I Was Only Wondering, please just accept it as a wondering. It is obviosley a sore subject and I will hide in a corner and cry if thats ok !
No worries; I honestly thought someone had been up to their old tricks.
It is a sore subject as I don't like being accused of things - not your fault I'm just trying to explain why we get a little annoyed at this insinuation....
...We had one Grape a while back that was PMing people telling them that I [personnally] could read them, was reading them and was telling other people what they said.....which did kind of get my back up as I can't, I wouldn't and if I could and had - surely the people in question would know if their private stuff got out???...
What the &%$* would someone do that for!!!?
I hope you banned 'em!
All the best - Glutton 4 Punishment Freelance shrub butcher and weed removal operative.
Are you OK there Liza - having a ramble round Wimbledon?
I'm sure Two sheds was using her own inimitable dry humour and if you are an idiot, so am I.
Oh, gotta go HFW is making tinctures on Discovery channel!
There is actually a system for reporting Private Messages, the same as reporting posts, to be used in case of spam, harrassment, abuse etc., etc. In the case of a reported PM, then Admin/Mods are able to read the reported PM (but no others) in order to decide how to deal with it.
If there was legal reasons, then Admin would be able to go into the database and find the text of PMs, but there isn't much precedent for that, and as far as I'm aware it's never happened on this site.
Originally posted by Liza
Just reassuring a newbie that they shouldn't take any notice of a jealous grape doubting them and wanting proof by pictures, I don't mind sharing we are all friends aren't we ?
Is this something that the Mods should be aware of? Feel free to PM and tell one of us if something needs sorting out.
(I'm a bit bemused as to why that would lead to thinking that Mods can read PMs though... )
HFW is now making anti inflammatory poultices - using an Edwardian herbal repertoire!
Just thought I'd tell you that.
Warm out this evening, don't you think?
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