I have upset me neighbours - advice please?

[Eternal Sunshine]

Tammy, the advice Paulottie has given is very good.

If you look at this you are the one who has been most wronged. If anyone acted like that in front of my children they would have a long way to go before they could make it up to me.

[Finedon.Dandy]

Thank you for all your sensible advise

Thank you for all your sensible advise. Thats why I love it on here - you really get to the root of things - pardon the pun!!!

I am just going to ignore the situation now. If anything else comes up I shall be back to check what my friends on here think we should do. I wont offer again to plant an extra to soothe their egos unless they appologise - it would just agravate the situation now. I tell you what if they had dealt with the situation differently I would have gone to great lengths to try to appease them as I hate upsetting anyone.

BLUE MOON - loved your comment follwed by the grin - brill that youre not bent but then I bet you wouldnt use the fact in such a way. I am also glad you took it the right way or it could of been - whoops Tammys done it again. (mental note to Tammy - only put foot in garden in future!)

Thanks again - looks like forcast of rain is wrong so garden here we come!

Tammy

[Libby]

Sounds as if you have a really lovely set of neighbours!!!
As it sounds as if the work you've done was all on your side I would imagine they have no recourse and you were quite within your rights. And this from the sister of a solicitor!
Try to ignore them and try not to treat their children in an unfriendly was. It's not their fault they have revolting parents.
Teach by example and rise above it. Difficult I know but be a better person for it.
Good luck.
Libby

[Grandpadragon]

Finedon Dandy,
Be careful not to get involve with litigation. I was forced to take action against a neighbour over a boundary dispute, it took me 8 years and cost him �50,000 Not happy memories.

[JanieB]

Beavering through 3 pages 'cos of connection probs. Logon to <gardenlaw.co.uk>. Really good advice. About property law not just gardens.