Calling it a day!

[veggiechicken]

Where does BM say he's being bullied?

[binley100]

He doesn't ....but the way it's written everyone seems to be assuming he is....

[veggiechicken]

Well guys, some of you got what you wanted.............I can't do with all this bad feeling, I've better things to do with my time........it's been a brilliant 5 years & wish everyone (well almost everyone) a fantastic season......................

One last comment before I leave:
F4acebook walls have ears................

Sorry I'm a bit confused here...... from what I've read over the past couple of days there was some disagreement with BillHH so why BM are you making it sound like you're being bullied .

He doesn't ....but the way it's written everyone seems to be assuming he is....

Seems quite clear to me that he "can't do with all this bad feeling"..............

[SarzWix]

BM, don't leave please. It's clear that the majority are happy with things as they are. As I'm not, I'm following Zazen's example and taking myself off altogether. Hope that that will draw a line under all this once and for all.

[binley100]

Well guys, some of you got what you wanted.............I can't do with all this bad feeling, I've better things to do with my time........it's been a brilliant 5 years & wish everyone (well almost everyone) a fantastic season......................

One last comment before I leave:
F4acebook walls have ears................

Don't leave!!

I don't know what has been said or by who but you are better than that, stay on here and let them leave.

We need a Gorilla on board x

I must have missed it as well.
Don't allow yourself to be pushed off from something you have enjoyed for the last 5 years.

Stick around BM. Don't let 'em win

Mod's ... a lot of tension could be mitigated for a wide range of members if we could have an "ignore" button (please). If a member could ignore the posts of another member that irritated them, thigs would be a lot less trying for everyone, including those not directly involved. Thanks



(personally, I really can't wait to try it out and have a list ready )

BM, see all these posts in about 10 mins, why should you leave, must have been some bullying I reckon,did see some stuff yesterday, but , WE NEED YOU! You are NOT allowed to leave. X

BM do not let them win, why give them the chance to gloat.

Stay on board bud and let the nasty's go.

Sorry VC , but reading the comments like don't let them win , don't let yourself be pushed off etc ...show that people think BM was being bullied and as far as I can see he wasn't . He's just got pi$$ed off with stuff and walked away as he has done in the past.....just saying for the record..

[veggiechicken]

I'm just quoting what he wrote - its up to those who've been around for the last few days to interpret his words for themselves.

[Gary88]

I knew it this is how planet of the apes starts haha. BM I know I haven't been on here long but I have read through most of the forums on here and you crop up all over pal you are fantasic at advice on the subject that the vine is about if some people have the time to drive someone to think after 5 yrs I have to leave well shame on them mate


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[Hazel at the Hill]

Step back for a while if you need to in order for the dust settle, big man, and come back when you're ready.

Quite a few of us might need to take a few deep breathes - I know I've written and (wisely!) cancelled many comments over the past couple of days.

There's a rope seat at the Gardener's Rest with your name on it, buddy - don't let it stay empty.

[Florence Fennel]

Oh dear, I'll miss you Mally

[Bren In Pots]

BM I've always regarded you as a friend here on the vine and I love your ideas/inventions so you'll be missed by me.

[Scarlet]

Missed by me also!

[Plot10]

I don't generally stick my oar in on these sort of things, having been burned in the early days of forums when there was less modding. I too have no idea of what's been said as I'm only on here a couple of times a day but I'd just like to say that Bigmally has been a fund of help and advice as long as I've been a member of this forum, I wouldn't like to see him leave but absolutely wish him well whatever he decides.

[mothhawk]

Oh gosh, this is sad news. I shall miss your gentle humour and good gardening advice BigMallly.

I don't know what's been said to influence your decision to leave, but I hope all the goodwill on this thread will persuade you to change your mind. If not, well, have a good life BM

[Raybon]

I don't know either. But I have seen some horrible spatty messages from other folk and feel ashamed that I felt too intimidated to respond on the other (perfectly innocent) person's behalf.
Sorry.

[Bigmallly]

Firstly, thank you to all who contacted me with support. I have had a change of heart & cannot & will not stand by & watch the reputation of this great forum go down the pan because individuals cannot let go of incidents which happened 6 months ago.