I know its my hormones but am so upset - need you guys right now

[Finedon.Dandy]

Just had someone make out I dont look after Mr D. Am so upset (irationaly I know) about it but would appreciate a chat as I know these tears are not gonna help my blood pressure. Know this may not be the right place but didnt know where else to come. Please ignore this post if it offends you - I am sorry.

Tam

[OverWyreGrower]

Why does he (apparantly) need looking after? He is a grown-up!

Don't let this stress you out please hon! I get this all the time from OH's grandparents, have learned to just ignore it.

[Flummery]

Don't take on about it Tammy. Someone speaking out of ignorance shouldn't have the power to upset you so much. You obviously realise the old hormonal rushes are making you sensitive but that doesn't help when they catch you does it? Tell whoever it is that it's Mr D's turn to look after you! Cheeky blighter!

[Finedon.Dandy]

calming down now guys - bl@@dy hormones. Had Di on the phone telling me much the same. All because I moaned to Oliver this am cos I couldnt contact him for 3 hours today - it was lucky I wasnt in labour - his phone was on silent. Course I made the mistake of mentioning on facebook that I was like a bear with a sore head (due to lack of sleep) and Oliver had already had a taste that they took offence. I do like facebook but sometimes it can be a very inflamatory place to be.

Thanks

xxxx

[Pumpkin Becki]

Hey you, I'm gonna give you a stiff talking to now...

You are heavily pregnant, if anyone needs 'looking after' its you right now, okay. This person doesn't live your life, so they can't know what happens in it. How dare they make such a comment to you . Do not let that kind of snidey remark hurt you. I'm certain Mr D would be equally upset by it as you are.

We love you here, and we want you well and looking after those little ones. They are what you need to think about right now - and yourself of course

Hugs and kisses
PB xxx

[ailsasyl]

Oh Tammy Big hugs, he's big enough to look after himself, and if not it's time he learnt!! It's you who needs looking after right now! Some folks are so insensitive!

[Finedon.Dandy]

Thanks guys - my cheeks are now as red as my hooter and eyes - what would I do without you all xxxx

[allotmentlady]

now listen here young lady as ill as I am, i can always start my helicopter up and come give the person who upset u a kick up the backside!

YOUR BEAUTIFUL and PREGNANT of course your going be tearful, ignore idiots and as for FB, we all know YOU, LOVE you, we all know what u mean and if u need to bend an ear, I am here for you Tammy xx

[FROSTYFRECKLE]

Whoever has upset you needs to get a life. Heavily pregnant woman + 2 little ones gets looked after BY OH, it's not the other way around. You are meant to sit on your b*m with your OH running after you (OH has biggest grin on his face cause he's going to be a daddy to twins very, very soon)

[FionaH]

Just got in and read this and FB. Sometimes people say stupid thoughtless things, sometimes they mean them that way most times they don't. Your hubby doesnt expect you to take care of him now does he? Ignore dappy remarks from silly people who dont know any better!

At the end of the day he is your hubby, you are very very pregnant, sleep deprived and he was a numpty, so you can be as mean as you flaming well like No one elses business but yours if you want to call him an absolute *********. Heaven knows I have mullered Mr H for less

[HayleyB]

Who's the one carrying two great bumps in one eh....... Nope not the mouthies they of course wouldn't cope blah to them and big strawberries from me...

[Incy]

Big hugs Tammy!
Whoever said that to you deserves to have their tongue chopped out! They obviously don't have the sense they were born with.
As so many have already said it's YOU who should be being looked after by your OH not the other way round. Carrying one bundle of joy is hard enough, two is way too much too be running round after a grown man!
Take care of yourself and don't worry if the hormones make a few tears spill now and then it's perfectly normal and ok.

[winstonwobble]

CHEER UP NOW thats an order ignore what some moron has said to you it 's you that needs looking after put the kettle on and have 2 chocy biscuits no make that 3

[SarzWix]

Silly mare... (The commenter, not you ) I've just stuck my two pennorth on FB.

Hope you're feeling chirpier now Tam

[scarey55]

I must have missed all the excitement - just gone back to re read the Facebook posts - you guys ROCK, you're so supportive

Tammy sweets, don't worry too much what other people think. And, re; high blood pressure, I reckon a good cry is good for you so ball your eyes out if you want to. Take care, not too long now so Oliver - Keep that bladdy phone off silent