Yesterday was one of my great nieces birthday's party all day lovely family friends gathering.
Anyhow My niece that lost her mum last october was there and omg is she mixed up, she told us lots of stuff that we quessed at but not sure about, any how she rings her dad and he tells her she has to go home and stay home, she wanted to go out with her friends. She passes phone to my niece ( 35yrs ) and he is drunk and at the pub been there all afternoon, niece breaks down in tears and tells us she doesnt want to go home and that is why she stays at any friends house that will have her, her friends mum is also an alcholic. So we have family disscussion and my other sister says she is staying with her for the night. I rang him to tell him, he says his daughter has let him down never rings him to say where she is, then she rings late at night to say staying over at friends, so I say well you should ring her, he says I Dont KNOW HER NUMBER, what parent doesnt know his childs phone number when they live under the same roof. I was spitting by now, so I told him he should know it write it down, We had been trying to call him for hours, he says well i have been in the pub just got home 7pm exactly says I and you are drunk and she is not coming home so he put the phone down on me.
He has locked her in and taken away the door keys so she cant get out when he is there.
We dont know where we stand but she will be coming to live with one of us soon cos she will not be going into care and we are letting my sister down.
I volentered my sister to go and see what the situation is this morning. !!!
She has no clothes as we chucked it all out recently and we left some washing of hers for him to do and its still in the basket 3 weeks later.
My nephew is taking her shopping tomorrow.
Anyhow My niece that lost her mum last october was there and omg is she mixed up, she told us lots of stuff that we quessed at but not sure about, any how she rings her dad and he tells her she has to go home and stay home, she wanted to go out with her friends. She passes phone to my niece ( 35yrs ) and he is drunk and at the pub been there all afternoon, niece breaks down in tears and tells us she doesnt want to go home and that is why she stays at any friends house that will have her, her friends mum is also an alcholic. So we have family disscussion and my other sister says she is staying with her for the night. I rang him to tell him, he says his daughter has let him down never rings him to say where she is, then she rings late at night to say staying over at friends, so I say well you should ring her, he says I Dont KNOW HER NUMBER, what parent doesnt know his childs phone number when they live under the same roof. I was spitting by now, so I told him he should know it write it down, We had been trying to call him for hours, he says well i have been in the pub just got home 7pm exactly says I and you are drunk and she is not coming home so he put the phone down on me.
He has locked her in and taken away the door keys so she cant get out when he is there.
We dont know where we stand but she will be coming to live with one of us soon cos she will not be going into care and we are letting my sister down.
I volentered my sister to go and see what the situation is this morning. !!!
She has no clothes as we chucked it all out recently and we left some washing of hers for him to do and its still in the basket 3 weeks later.
My nephew is taking her shopping tomorrow.
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