oh blinking heck :(

**tamsin** · 25-07-2009, 06:12 PM

Can you email him and ask him to call you earlier?

**ckfe** · 25-07-2009, 06:13 PM

Originally posted by piskieinboots View Post

I've just had a phone call to say that a pal of Ian's has had a heart attack and died - this pal and Ian joined up together and moved through the Service pretty much side-by-side, he was also Ian's Best Man at our wedding.

My dilemma - do I email him now or wait until he calls me which won't be until Monday at the earliest - bu**er bu**er bu**er

you can't tell him something like that in an email... can't you email him and ask him to phone you as you've got something important you need to tell him?

**piskieinboots** · 25-07-2009, 06:14 PM

I guess

oh silly sod, why did he (pal) have to go and do that!

**ckfe** · 25-07-2009, 06:16 PM

Originally posted by piskieinboots View Post

I guess

oh silly sod, why did he (pal) have to go and do that!

it'll be better if he hears it from you directly, at least you'll be there to support him over the phone

**scarey55** · 25-07-2009, 06:21 PM

Originally posted by piskieinboots View Post

I guess

oh silly sod, why did he (pal) have to go and do that!

I know, most inconsiderate wot !

I agree, you can't tell in an e-mail - prolly best to get him to call you earlier if poss. Do you know his widow, how is she doing?

**piskieinboots** · 25-07-2009, 06:21 PM

My concern is that he said he wouldn't be able to call me before Monday evening (meaning he really wouldn't be able to, if you get my drift), if I email trying to get him to - well, he's going to really worry isn't he

I agree I can't tell him in an email, I fear I shall have to sit on it until he calls.

**SarzWix** · 25-07-2009, 06:23 PM

Oh Pisk, that's rubbish

I'd go with the others - email him and ask him to call. That's sh*tty news at the best of times...
(((((hugs)))))

**piskieinboots** · 25-07-2009, 06:23 PM

Originally posted by scarey55 View Post

.... Do you know his widow, how is she doing?

they split many years ago, wouldn't even know where to find her now - although pal's Dad (who just called me) will surely know maybe.

**piskieinboots** · 25-07-2009, 06:25 PM

ok, so - how do I start the email:
Subject: Call home ASAP

eeeek

I can see his bloody pressure rising especially if he really can't call, he will be imagining all sorts

**scarey55** · 25-07-2009, 06:25 PM

I think you're right, it's best to sit on it until Monday, at least you've got us to unload on (and I mean that most kindly) There's nothing much he can do anyway from there.

**piskieinboots** · 25-07-2009, 06:29 PM

yes, I think I shall have to hold on to it until he calls - gawd blimey darling David RIP

I really do need a drink now....

thanks for all your support as ever
(((hugs)))

**Seahorse** · 25-07-2009, 06:34 PM

What a rotten situation Piskie. Purely in these circumstances, I think you're right that your best option is to put your Big Girl Panties on and wait till monday to talk to Snowdrop. Obviously it's not going to be 'good news' when he hears it but if, as you suspect, he really *can't* call you just now, he's only going to imagine even worse things and that won't help to keep him and his lads safe

**zazen999** · 25-07-2009, 06:38 PM

It is of course possible that word might get round the ranks and he might know before Monday......but you can't email that, he'd have a nightmare few days.

Sad news hon, esp as he will miss the funeral as well

**SarzWix** · 25-07-2009, 06:41 PM

I agree, if there's no way he can call before then, there's no point in stressing him out.

Where do you get Big Girls Pants from Seahorse? Do they make you brave? *wonders if they're a new M&S product*

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