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Ok! I am going to stick my head out now. Generally we all hold back a bit when speaking about our lot. My man and me are bonded (almost at the hips) but at times he can get on my tits. Should I feel guilty?
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Those we love are VERY ANNOYING when they don't see things our way, and it is bound to happen some of the time, because they are not US!Flowers come in too many colours to see the world in black-and-white. -
No way should you feel guilty Brengirl. We all need some time to ourselves (our own private space). My problem is the other way around - too much time on my own.Comment
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LOL, I love Madmax to bits but sometimes they could be very very little bits! I guess the more we love them the more they can wind us up now and again
Happy Gardening,
Shirley
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I agree, Shirl. I still look forward to him coming home in the evenings, which is a good sign.
However, there are times when he's been in five minutes, and I wish he hadn't bothered! 
All the best - Glutton 4 Punishment
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Awwww Bren! I've just nearly fallen off the sofa laughingOriginally posted by Brengirl View Post No don't feel guilty! Me and Mr JB are the same!
Still chuckling!
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If you truely love somebody then you know all their good bits and bad bits and the bad bits don't really matter because they're outweighed by the good - in other words it's fine (in fact downright healthy) to have your own mind and want to have your own space now and again. Go off, do your own thing and then come back refreshed again. Think me and OH would kill each other if we spend 24 / 7 together but we really enjoy the time we do have and have plenty to talk about too which we wouldn't have if we did everything together.
Some of us live in the past, always talking about back then. Some of us live in the future, always planning what we are going to do. And, then there are those, who neither look behind or ahead, but just enjoy the moment of right now.
Which one are you and is it how you want to be?Comment
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I spend a lot of time with Snowdrop - I work from home, he comes home for lunch everyday (downside of living on camp I guess).
I love him to inifite and beyond - however sometimes I stifle a little 'whoop' when he says he is 'going to be away all day'.
But then, as you all know, when he comes home to say he is off to play sandcastles for six months I am crestfallen and beside myself and long for him to be home for lunch every day.aka
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I know exactly what you mean and don't feel guilty, it's perfectly normal . Sometimes you just have to go and have some me time.Originally posted by Brengirl View PostS*d the housework I have a lottie to dig
a batch of jam is always an act of creation ..Christine Ferber
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Absolutely not Brengirl.......I love my old man to pieces and if I lost him I would probably feel like I had lost a limb....but he can get on mine too and I dont feel guiltyOriginally posted by Brengirl View Post
Your post did make me laugh out loud!!!!Kirsty b xx
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Absolutely not! My husband & i both work from home (i work for him) and spend, quite literally, 24/7 together. Believe me, that is a recipe for getting on each other's t!ts. But saying that, we very rarely argue - that's not to say that i don't cherish the odd evening that he goes out with his mates & i have a few hours to myself. Its completely normal, we can't get on with everyone all the time.Originally posted by Brengirl View PostLast edited by Newbie; 30-09-2010, 10:40 PM.Comment
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nope, you shouldn't. But speaking as a recently single person, maybe ignore me
trouble is, you can't ignore everything else written above
and if he didn't get on your tits occasionally, then you would be mother teresa and he would be ghandi
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A true marriage made in heaven!Originally posted by taff View Postnope, you shouldn't. But speaking as a recently single person, maybe ignore me
trouble is, you can't ignore everything else written above
and if he didn't get on your tits occasionally, then you would be mother teresa and he would be ghandi
We manage by each having our own space. Mine is the allotment and the back room with the pooter.............hers is the front room with the stupidly oversized flatscreen telly in it!
My Majesty made for him a garden anew in order
to present to him vegetables and all beautiful flowers.- Offerings of Thutmose III to Amon-Ra (1500 BCE)
Diversify & prosper
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That's exactly what I needed to hear Nearly all our married life me and him have worked and played together 24/7. We ran a pub for 10 years until it made me ill. We then bought a touring caravan, pulled up our roots and moved down to the SW. We lived in our little home on wheels for a year until buying property. It was then out of dire need we bought a hackney carriage and now 28 years later have a small fleet. Our son runs it now and we just plod on in our little way at home. Neither of us has had time to indulge in hobbies or be social before so it is a good job that we can still enjoy each others company. Most of the time 
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Sounds like a nice life, Bren. Which part of the Country did you originate from, and what made you move and settle in Dorset?Originally posted by Brengirl View PostThat's exactly what I needed to hear Nearly all our married life me and him have worked and played together 24/7. We ran a pub for 10 years until it made me ill. We then bought a touring caravan, pulled up our roots and moved down to the SW. We lived in our little home on wheels for a year until buying property. It was then out of dire need we bought a hackney carriage and now 28 years later have a small fleet. Our son runs it now and we just plod on in our little way at home. Neither of us has had time to indulge in hobbies or be social before so it is a good job that we can still enjoy each others company. Most of the time
Yes, as I've said before, I'm nosey!
All the best - Glutton 4 Punishment
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