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    Had my plot for the last 2 years and loved every minute of it .
    Now I've decided to give it up as due to recent family argument.
    Do I take the shed down and remove the polytunnel or try sell them at a huge loss to a new plot holder that probably wants it all for free
    When you have a hammer in your hand everything around you starts looking like a nail.

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    Sad day Jonny. I don't think anyone can advise you on what you should do............Whatever you do, I hope it works out for the best for you.
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    • #3
      Originally posted by jonny the plant pot View Post
      Had my plot for the last 2 years and loved every minute of it .
      Now I've decided to give it up as due to recent family argument.
      Do I take the shed down and remove the polytunnel or try sell them at a huge loss to a new plot holder that probably wants it all for free
      pause if you can to see if things look different in time. If you love it maybe there is a way to keep it on? Mrs balders isn't all together happy with me and my plot (allotment widow) but we've come to an understanding in the end...
      You say 'loved every minute of it' - maybe worth taking a step back and a deep breath and figuring out how to save it...
      Best of luckj
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      • #4
        Sorry to hear this, Jonny.

        In principle I agree with Baldy ... but at the end of the day there are more important things in life than allotments and you have to put what really matters before the other stuff.

        Good luck!
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        • #5
          My advice would be to give the allotment a rest for a while. In life it can be very hard to find peace and joy. And when you do find them, they are to be treasured.

          Without knowing the facts, I suspect this argument may blow over and soon be forgotten. That's the thing about arguments, in 99.99% of cases you look back and wonder what the heck all the fuss was all about! They're seldom of any significant importance.

          My point is, this argument will probably be smoothed over in time. Then you'll be missing your allotment, if you've given it up. So, don't be hasty.

          If you are certain of your position, then okay, my advice there would be to leave the shed and polytunnel for the new person to use - and may they find the same peace and joy there as you did.
          Pain is still pain, suffering is still suffering, regardless of whoever, or whatever, is the victim.
          Everything is worthy of kindness.

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          • #6
            I definitely agree with a time for reflection, Jonny, if you can - certainly keep the plot until the next renewal date as whatever 'stuff' is going on with your family may blow over (with a bit of luck).

            It's a tricky one about stuff that you've invested in an erected on the plot - practically speaking, if you can't recoup a bob or two from the new plotholder is it feasible to remove the shed and poly and either use them elsewhere or sell them second hand? Otherwise, I'd call it karma and you'll reap rewards in (allotment) heaven.

            I hope you can work it out to keep the plot though.

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            • #7
              No advice Jonny , hope you can keep it.
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              • #8
                Sorry to hear that Jonny. Families are horrible things ( I know, I have one ).
                As has already been said, if you can step back for a while and try to resolve the issue. sorry I know that's very easy for me to say when I don't know all the details.
                Good luck with whatever you decide and you've always got us for virtual support

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                • #9
                  Eeek...sad day indeed.
                  I suppose it depends on how important the plot is to you but is there some massive compromise/ forfeit you can come to where everyone is happy?

                  Failing that....eBay at a loss, sell on to next guy ( male or female ) at a loss, or just leave as a gift.
                  Depends on how much time you have for faffing around, and how much money you are prepared to lose out on.

                  Can you keep the plot running until the year is up?
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                  • #10
                    Sorry about your predicument,some good advice already given,do not act in haste,you could regret it later,if you love the peace and pleasure of the place,think really hard,if your mind is set then think how long before you have to leave,ref the poly and shed,put a for sale up on your plot,in shop window,ext buyer remove,be kind to yourself and think what would be the best for YOU in the long term,several times i have wavered,and glad we still got our little sanctuary,best of luck to you.
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                    • #11
                      Very sad news indeed Johny!

                      And a very difficult decision to have to make considering all the time, money not to mention the hard work you have invested thus far!

                      I would echo others advise & take a step back for a while, as a rash & hastie decision you may could come to regret.

                      All the very best of luck to you with It though Johny, whatever you decide!
                      "Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit, wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad"

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                      • #12
                        Very sorry to hear your news, jonny. Might you able to share your plot with someone else? Giving it up, if it gives you so much pleasure, would only add to your pain.

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                        • #13
                          Awww jonny, sorry to read about your decision to give up your treasured lottie .... It can't have been an easy decision to make ....
                          Ditto regarding the advice already so wisely given ...... Hope it all works out for the best for you and your circumstances. Keep in touch on here, we're all here for you!
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                          a prescription ... And with no limit on dosage.
                          - Author Unknown ~~~

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                          • #14
                            Sorry Johnny I can't think of anything not already said Hope things improve for you in the shortest time.
                            He who smiles in the face of adversity,has already decided who to blame

                            Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity

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                            • #15
                              I just want to add how sorry I am that you feel you have to give up your allotment especially as it has brought you much joy. If there is no choice, would you still be able to grow some things at home. Thinking of you and hoping this turns out OK in the end.
                              LOVE growing food to eat in my little town back garden. Winter update: currently growing overwintering onions, carrots, lettuce, chard, salad leaves, kale, cabbage, radish, beetroot, garlic, broccoli raab, some herbs.

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