A vagrant is living lock stock and cans of special brew in my neighbours greenhouse. She phoned to advise me not to allow my children to visit alone to pick the strawbs, but was otherwise unconcerned. I, however, no longer feel confident to go in the late evening to water, tiffle and sit and enjoy the peace and quiet. Has anyone any advice on how to deal with the situation, maintain friendly relations with the neighbour, and be able to return to the heady days of being alone on the plot feeling serene.