I have no experience to share, Terry, and no wise words I can back up with evidence, but I wish you all well, and I'm staggered by the number of lovely, caring peple there are here. If as many people in your real life as in your virtual life are rooting for you and your child, all will be as well as it possibly can. Best wishes,

Flum

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