Hi Dobby,
I think youve got your Priorities wrong it should be
1st Plot
2nd Plot
then fit the other two in as and when
We get all the Bol***ks at work about work life balance then they went and stuck an extra 1hrs travel time on it for me making 11 hrs out of the house. So I now don't catch the free bus service ( which is very nice) I drive to work and I leave a 7:00am and am back at 4:30pm - far better for me, but not so good for the carbon footprint but I was finding I was so knackered that I was continually arguing with Mrs G over the most stupid things. Now I come in have a cup of tea and can avoid her all night
( only joking).
We can all use some extra money, but you need time to spend it as well. As my grandad used to say ....
"They don't put pockets in shrouds"