Well a very serious accident in our household five years ago made us realise that we had to make the very best use of every minute we had - either together or (within reason) doing all the things we really wanted to do.

Good luck with your decision Mr D - its not an easy one for you, but at least you are sorting it all out in your own mind by discussing it here.

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Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn't know that so it goes on flying anyway.
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